Annette Sabater '84
An Iris Stands Tall: A Mother鈥檚 Journey, a Daughter鈥檚 Transition
As a mother, Annette Sabater 鈥84 stood witness to a profound coming-of-age story when her transgender child鈥攚ho had proclaimed herself to be a girl at age 2鈥攂egan a medical transition at age 16. As an artist, Annette explored her own experience and emotional response through graphite, charcoal, and oil pastel on paper from 2014 to 2016. The result is a collection of observations, musings, cultural commentary, and personal narrative captured in An Iris Stands Tall, recently exhibited at Cerimon House and Multnomah Arts Center Gallery in Portland, Ore.
The pieces featured here embody four intimate aspects of Annette鈥檚 story. 鈥淧urple鈥 shows newborn babies boxed in by preconceived ideas of gender at birth, with one outlier who defies this dichotomy. 鈥淏oy Queen鈥 confronts the challenge of dressing up on Halloween. When her 4-year-old, then identified as a boy, wanted the glam and sparkle of a princess costume, Annette tried a compromise. He could be a king, complete with plastic jewels and a faux-fur-lined purple taffeta cape. 鈥淭he king costume was safe, and we were hopeful it would satisfy his regal, feminine spirit,鈥 Annette writes. It didn鈥檛 work. 鈥淏ut I am a queen,鈥 he insisted.
鈥淗oodie Shell鈥 shows a boy wrapped in his favorite layer of clothing that served as 鈥渁 means of getting lost ... where he could hide and feel protected.鈥 And 鈥淢y Eyes Will Always Be Blue鈥 documents an important moment for Annette during the transition. 鈥淢y daughter reminded me that her core remained the same,鈥 she writes.鈥淚 began to look into her eyes more as her outside appearance shifted from young man to woman. I looked and found her soul remained steady and strong as the process continued.鈥
To see more works from this exhibit, visit or view them in person at The Arts Center in Corvallis, Ore., May 10 through June 26.
鈥擲tacey Cook
