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Envy may be one of the seven deadly sins, but it can be a catalyst for growth, according to Sara Protasi, associate professor of philosophy.

Envy is a powerful emotion, condemned across cultures and religions, and accused of rooting the most horrific crimes, from Cain鈥檚 fratricide against Abel to the Jewish genocide. Malicious envy motivates people to plot and scheme, to steal and sabotage. Despite envy鈥檚 dark and dangerous side, however, it can be an emotion whose power can be harnessed for self-improvement.

Think about an intense episode of envy you may have felt鈥攁nd yes, you probably did feel envy at some point in your life, even if you don鈥檛 like to think about it! Chances are that you felt that the person you envied was better, more fortunate, or more advantaged than you in some way. Their superiority was about something you really cared about: a trait, such as beauty, humor, or intelligence, or an object, such as a job, an achievement, wealth, or social status.

Envy Illustration for Arches, spring 2022, by Kristopher Nystrom

Envy is a painful perception of another person鈥檚 superiority; their success, Aristotle tells us, feels like a reproach to us. It reminds us of what we could have been, had, or achieved. When the distance between us and the envied feels unfillable, that鈥檚 when the nastiness arises鈥攚e become hostile and aggressive toward the other person. It鈥檚 too hard to admit that they may have worked harder or studied more than we did and thus deserve their better position, so we tell ourselves and others that they did something wrong. We try to bring them down, sometimes literally, as in some sports competitions where rivals are tripped, or worse, as in hate crimes.

But envy is not always this nasty. As I explain in my book (The Philosophy of Envy, Cambridge University Press, 2021), envy is a lot more complicated and interesting than that.

There are at least four different kinds of envy. There is spiteful envy, when we feel completely incapable of improving our station. That鈥檚 the envy that Iago feels toward Othello, and which brings him to scheme and weave a web that ultimately ruins not only Othello and his loved ones but also his own life. Then there鈥檚 aggressive envy, a dangerous type that involves cheating or taking credit for talents of a rival; it鈥檚 the envy felt by someone who feels confident that they can pull the envied down to their level. Politics is a context where many rivalries are dealt with, not through hard work and self-improvement, but by smearing the opponent.

Spiteful and aggressive envy are what deservingly give envy its bad reputation. But envy is concerned with a perceived inferiority with regard to an important good or goal, and that is probably why we evolved to feel it: It matters how we stack up to others, especially in a situation of scarce resources, when only some people can get a limited good. Thus, envy can be functional, because it may lead us to emulate others and improve ourselves. Call this emulative envy. Sport provides a wealth of examples of friendly rivalries鈥攁thletes who are friends but who are also constantly competing against each other and, presumably, envying the person who would win a race or a tournament.

Unfortunately, improving one鈥檚 lot is sometimes impossible, and emulative envy cannot always arise. That鈥檚 when inert envy occurs. A typical example is 鈥渂aby envy,鈥 felt by people who want to have children but are infertile and are incapable of rejoicing with their pregnant friends. This envy isn鈥檛 malicious, but it leads to feelings of sadness, self-loathing, and detachment from the envied other.

Sara Protasi
Associate Professor of Philosophy
Sara Protasi

"Envy is a painful perception of another person's superiority. Their success reminds us of what we could have been, had, or achieved."

While envy reveals a dark side of human nature鈥攐ur tendency to covet other people鈥檚 possessions and talents and cast an evil eye on them鈥攊t also shows a more luminous one: our tendency to improve ourselves and strive for excellence. But how can we resist envy鈥檚 dark temptations and channel its luminous energy? First, we should reject the stigma. Envy is a normal, human passion. It鈥檚 crucial to feel it, acknowledge it, and investigate its origins, not deny it and let it fester. Envy has signaling value: It tells us what we care about. When we are mindful of our envy, we might discover interesting things about ourselves! Then, we should frame our current inferiority as temporary and develop a growth mindset (鈥淚 might have lost this race, but I might be able to win the next one!鈥). Finally, we should think of the envied as a model to emulate, not a target to destroy. After all, for envy to even arise, they cannot be too different from us. What did they do better? How can we learn from them?

Envy鈥檚 painful pangs can make us focus on what matters and on how to achieve it鈥攊f only we let them.